Meeting singles in Boston is invigorating, especially when it may lead to something amazing afterwards. If you’re both into each other and would like to get to know each other better, a first date is inevitable. Naturally you’ll want to put your best foot forward: plan the whole night and get everything right. But no matter how meticulous you are, there are a ton of things that could go wrong. Here’s how to plan your dates better.
Check in with Them
Knowing just a bit about your date will help you plan the date. If they’re a vegetarian, that steakhouse won’t be the best place to kick things off. If they’re lactose intolerant, don’t suggest an ice cream parlor and if they have gluten allergies, pizza wasn’t probably the best choice. It’s also great to find out their taste in music or movies first, it’ll be such a drag if the date seems too one-sided. Chances are, you won’t be taking things to the next level.
Carry More than Enough Cash
Meeting singles in Boston can start off with a friendly round of drinks but when it’s time for a date, you’ll need more than just a single round. Do your homework. Find out how much the restaurant charges, including the dessert. Carry more cash just in case you decide to try out something new on the date. What you don’t want is a scene where the maître-d holds your date hostage as you rush to the nearest ATM or at home to get your other credit card because the first got declined.
Hygiene
Check yourself, top to bottom. Take a long nice bath. Cut your nails, trim those protruding hairs, apply just a hint of deodorant or aftershave. Nothing strong just in case your date is allergic. Go easy on the make-up. Put on just enough to look pretty. If things go well, you’ll want to take things farther with him and at that point, you’ll want him to recognize you. Before leaving your house, floss and brush your teeth. Leave nothing to chance.
Keep Your Expectations Realistic
Be positive but do not expect that that other party will be dying to stay the night. Don’t try too hard to impress her, just be easy and comfortable.
Meeting singles in Boston is a fun way to connect and find love. Go out there and don’t be afraid to make the first move.
