Being single in any big city is often seen as a time of great opportunity to meet that special someone. However, just because Boston has a lot of single people, it doesn’t mean that they are always right for your needs in a partner.
For many singles, going on blind dates or double dates with friends, family or coworkers is simply awkward and uncomfortable. However, working with online dating sites also has its drawbacks. These can include hours spent online, people misrepresenting themselves or lack of response if you find a profile of interest.
In these situations, people may turn to a variety of different singles events in the city to meet others that are also looking for relationships. The problem with these events is that they often have all the drawbacks of blind dates and internet dating all rolled into one.
Speed Dating
While the popularity of speed dating singles events is lessening, there is a still a good turnout at most events. This process includes men and women rotating through tables, typically either the men or women move, at two to five-minute intervals.
If you are interested in the person, you submit that individual’s name on a form at the end of the event. When both people put in the same request, the companies providing the speed dating event lets you both know.
The biggest problem with a speed dating event is the speed. In just a few minutes it is impossible to get anything but a very initial impression, and it is often based on looks rather than on substance.
Singles Mixers
Another common type of event for singles is a mixer, dance or networking event. These tend to resemble a high school dance with a few more outgoing singles making introductions and the vast majority simply talking to people they already know and not really mingling and mixing.
These singles events typically are designed for a wide range of people. Those who show up are not pre-screened, which means they will be a variety of ages and have a range of interests.
Finding the right person in these types of events in Boston can be a challenge. Using a matchmaking service that carefully pairs you with individuals that meet your desired characteristics in a partner is much more effective, comfortable and more likely to result in a true relationship.
